What My Breakup Is Showing Me About Abundance

Breakups suck.

No matter who is the one doing the breaking up, they are hard.

I’m fresh out of a breakup and man, I have been learning so much.

As I mentioned in my last email, I had been quiet for a few months because I was believing that “no one wants to hear what I have to say”.

I worked with my Body Code practitioner to move out the trapped emotions/trauma that were keeping me silent and, well…. the flood gates have opened!

So, what does that have to do with breakups and abundance?

Historically, when I experienced a break-up, it was natural to go down the “Woah-is-me-I-have no-body-that-loves-me-there-is-nothing-good-in-my-life-to-be-happy-about” road real quick.

In the past few years, I’ve been doing a lot of work releasing all the gunk that’s made it really easy for me to go down that road and really hard for me to see all of the abundance around me.

I’m seeing the results of all of that work because, even though I am sad about the breakup (I really did love the guy) ~ I know without a doubt that there will be someone who’s even more in alignment with what I desire for my world and that abundance is all around me.

The old thoughts I used to get from my inner critic like:

🙁 “What’s wrong with you that you can’t stay in a relationship?"
🙁 “You’ll never find anyone….”
🙁 “Your life is pitiful"

did cross my mind once but they didn’t stick around at all…I had no space for them because there is so much abundance in my world ~ which is pretty fantastic considering they use to be the norm.

I’m seeing an abundance of love, joy, and laughter when I used to experience an abundance of separation, sadness, and sorrow.

I’ll take this abundance any day!

I'm curious - what does abundance mean to you?

Is it something tangible like money or possessions?

Is it something intangible like emotions and feelings?

Or something else?

I want to hear from you ~ what does abundance mean for you?